Jolene Navarro here and I'm going through my
end of year reflections and find this has been a great year for me, but I have
dear loved ones that just want to close the door on 2014.
So what are my resolutions
inspirations for the next year?
I could say lose
weight be healthier, no impulse shopping save money, & write more
words, but I think I want a bigger life then these imply (plus I like to keep it real).
What do we need to
find our life's purpose?
I thought about the
lessons I try to teach my students that will take them past high school and into life. In a mirror moment I realized I still need these lessons too. A great
check list for us all as we head into a new year.
Embrace
Failure. Failure is an integral
part of being human. Failure means you’re trying, learning, and growing. Don’t
let the fear of failure keep you from living fully. Do you know who Sara
Blakely is? She was raised by a father that taught her to celebrate failure. That
was put to the test when she failed her state bar to become a lawyer – more than
once. What she became was the world’s youngest female billionaire by developing
a product called Spanx. You should look up her story and all the failure she
used to fuel her dream. You can’t let fear of rejection or ridicule hold you
back, you might actually need to embrace it.
Create your own community. In the mid 1800s there was a movement that changed
how the world would forever look at and judge art. Impressionism was incubated
at Café Guerbois.
How did a small group
of people accomplish this fete? By meeting together regularly, challenging and debating
with each other on the idea of art and what makes it art.
They had heated
disagreements over the “rules” of art. Artist such as Manet, Monet, Renoir,
Cezanne and Degas made up this widely diverse group, and their creative energy
paved the way for generations of modern artists.
Steve Jobs said
collaboration works best when ideas are met with brutal honesty and are forced
to explore a deeper purpose. I doubt Degas ever patted Manet on the back
and said he had pretty pictures. They didn’t just dream of being artists,
they wanted to set the world on fire with their passion despite what the
established art world told them.
Six years ago I made
the resolution to try and write for commercial publication. I went online and found
SARA (San Antonio Romance Authors), and my writing greatly improved because of
their questioning and tough critique. I also learned about the realities of being published. Like selling one book would not
pay off my mortgage.
I believe I’m
published today because of them. They also introduced me to others that changed
my life.
In June, for the last three
years I have made my way to West Texas A&M to a writers week sponsored by
Jodi Thomas.
The first year I made
the five hour trip alone and it was worth it. For five days, ten of us met for
almost five hours a day in a class led by Alexandra Sokoloff. It can border on magical. It was a full week of brainstorming and being pushed by this small group to find that twist
in my story to make it unique. I learned that the ideas are there, the details buried deep
within my brain.
Side benefit? Lifelong friends that “get me”
in a way no one else ever will. And most of all, urge me to get it written and
put it out into the world.
Resilience
– this might be the most
important. The ability to keep going on faith alone when it might seem you have
no reason to.
“Trust in the LORD with
all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your
ways acknowledge Him, and He will make your paths straight.” Proverbs
3:5-6. We want to know why life isn’t fair, why this or why her. We want to know why certain things have
happened. I believe in most situations it
is senseless to deliberate, to spend hours pondering why. Instead, it is more
powerful and ultimately healthy to trust God and use our time meditating on his
word to ensure we are on a God-ordained path. A journey only He understands.
“…Weeping may endure
for a night. But joy comes
in the morning.” Psalm 30:5. Tough times hit us all and some so much harsher
than others. But this too shall pass and joy will be yours. Even death has its own
victory.
“Have I not
commanded you? Be strong and courageous. Do not be terrified; do not be
discouraged, for the LORD your God will be with you wherever you go.” Joshua
1:9. We might shut him out, but he never leaves us. God is always with me so I
don’t have to submit to fear and discouragement! We were created to be courageous. So be bold in strength and courage
that God will give to you if you only ask.
As you go into 2015 may
you:
1) Embrace Failure
2) Create and Support a Community
3) Be Resilient
Don’t be afraid to turn on the light and expose
your dreams to the world. May 2015 be your best year yet.
We were made to be courageous -Casting Crown
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